Tips for Choosing Your Support Group

Tips for Choosing Your Support Group

Support groups come in all sizes and flavors, in person and online. Whether you're looking for a divorce support group, a cancer support group, depression, grief, or weight loss support group, the elements for providing you with substantive and positive emotional, mental, physical or spiritual support are still the same. There are two kinds of support groups: positive and negative.

Positive:
A pro-active positive support group is one that promotes learning about new medicines, new procedures, new clinical trials, new books, CD's et al about your disorder. This group promotes going forward, and helps facilitate your research and personal empowerment as a blessing.

When you are introduced to the group they do not spend endless hours recounting the disease story about why you are here. It's a fact that does not need to be addressed again and again that you have a disorder story. YOU live it, so why keep going over it and over it and over it, to activate all that negative energy? That's WHY you joined that particular group.

The positive group leader is not intimidated by your unanswerable questions, but is inspired to become more educated about your topic. Your leader encourages you to ask current unanswerable questions and challenges each member to think beyond disease limiting conditions and current horizons. They promote all of the members to participate by delegating various positive assignments for everyone.

If this is a local group, you take "glad to be alive, share life" field trips that have absolutely NOTHING to do with the disorder, and EVERYTHING about feeling good about yourself, seeing the world, laughing and having a balanced life.

This group supports taking care of your appearance, sharing new ideas, resources and adventures about makeup, hair, wardrobe, personal hygiene and physical rehabilitation and exercise. This group wants you to care about your personal appearance, so when you look in the mirror and are seen by friends, you look alive, and as healthy and refined as possible for your condition. They discourage maintaining a "sick" image.

Negative:
It should be a great concern to be in a group that does nothing but recount what was and all that is unhealthy and unhappily going on in the life of it's participants. Inevitably this will negatively
impact participant's minds and spirits. This is often seen in online Internet groups.
Research tends to support that recounting your horror story and reading the countless venting of others, does not support a positive attitude that promotes physical healing and healthy emotional and mental responses.

This group meets only to go over and over and over your tale of diagnosis and personal devastation, from your introduction "story" to your tale of weekly woes. This is a disorder "victim" group. It is commiseration of negative energy at the highest level of disguise.

No matter how much you think that this group is helping you, they are not. They exist to talk about and share negative experiences creating a "stuck" atmosphere. It’s bonding by perpetual "downers."You do not receive points on the other side for being a victim of your diagnosis, disease, or plight. You are in fact, contributing to your own demise. Acceptance is one thing, denial another.

Being a victim assists your problem in draining your own life force energy. Having a problem and addressing it with the "pity poor me" approach is futile. It may elicit help for a while, but the keyword here is for a while. Give up the pity party. Fight! Instead, use that time researching how to restore and regenerate your life.

Do not use the fact that you are having a terrible reaction to something in your treatment as making you special or as your identity. I have seen many cancer clients who wanted attention, and used the negative occurrences in their illness as a banner to set them apart. This is not productive. It frustrates your healthcare provider. They are aware of the psychological reasons you are using your negative reaction for attention. Understanding that this is a confusing and complicated time in your life, try to take your identity from your positive approach to life. Therefore, when you healthcare provider does not emphasize or respond to your negative identity crisis, it’s a good sign. Their job is to assist your health, not enable you.

Grieving is an area that takes a little more time. HOWEVER, positive attitudes are essential here also. Although you have lost a loved one, living with a dead memory can kill off your life force energy day to day and breath by breath. I personally understand this as my fiance was killed in a sudden auto crash. I never had the chance to say ANYTHING! However, it's better to celebrate their life and remember all the good. Then you keep all the "positive" alive which is contributory to your healing. By celebrating their life, you never have to bury their memories. You can take them out at any time, like a special gift and savor all the wonderful thoughts and feelings.

Weight loss is just that. It takes times. However, while waiting, you can focus on the light at the end of the scale, instead of the chocolate bars and emotional traumas creating your health issue. You CAN tell a health story that presents your "learning opportunity" as a learning opportunity to help heal the others in your group, rather than a commiseration band aid.

If your group is not continually teaching you new and progressive things, and supporting your positiveemotional, mental, spiritual and physical and appearance growth, leave.

If your group doesn't embrace having an open mind and awareness without censorship other than that of your personal intuition, leave!UNTIL you take your knowledge gained from any group and turn it into a positive learning opportunity that you do something about! you are not going forward. Unless you choose to grow forward, you will remain in the same condition that brought you into the group in the first place.

Research continues to affirm that being a part of a positive support can add quality and quantity to your life. Although the intent of most support groups is to be contributory in helping it's members, a negative group can ultimately do more harm than good.

Medical Intuition & the Medical Intuitive: A Day in The Life of A Medical Intuitive - Part 1

Medical Intuition & the Medical Intuitive:
A Day in The Life of A Medical Intuitive - Part 1

Most articles on medical intuition and medical intuitives address how to get certification, natural gift development, and awakening the intuitive you. This article presents the human side of this ability.

Traditional medicine is becoming more integrated with alternative medicine (thank goodness). Depending upon the open mindedness of the health care facility and it's staff you receive different welcomes.

My real name is Brent Atwater. However when I walk into Intensive Care, my name is "who the H…is that?" Moving on to the patient's room, visitors ask and call me "who's she?" As the attending healthcare provider whispers out of the side of their mouth to the immediate family, "who's that, and why is she here", I gain yet another identity.

If asked to leave the room, the family immediately states, "she's with us", so I'm not escorted out. Interesting, during this entire process, I don't have a name. So don't think you're going to arrive in a healthcare facility and be given a beautiful brass badge that says Medical Intuitive. Let's also dispel the fact that no one but the family and client really cares what you do except to get information for their benefit or to learn more about your skills, mostly out of curiosity.

In more progressive hospitals I get to be a "medical intuitive", and no one makes a funny face and tilts their head saying "a what?" However, the curious come out of the corners. "You do WHAT?" is the standard reply when you explain that you can look inside a patient's body like a human MRI. Immediately they say, "what do you see in me?" I never answer that with a parlor trick. Instead I explain that it would not honor them or their issues to do a quick "focus and find." To perform Kodak moments for the benefit of justifying your competency is, in my opinion, neither professional nor contributory to the profession's legitimacy.

Some medical intuitives claim to smell disease and disorder. Think about that…… not your pleasant aromatherapy input. Unless you learn how to manage your abilities, i.e. put up and take out of your gift portfolio briefcase what is needed when you need it, medical intuition can negatively permeate your human being. Walking around on a day-to-day basis smelling disease is NOT pleasant.

And then there's standing in the line at the post office everyday or during the holiday rush. There's Bob with heart disease shining thru his next day air, Sally holding the hand of her son who is about to get a sore throat, and Martha at the counter with kidney failure on the way. Selling stamps is Marvin who was abused as a child and his counterpart wrapping a priority mail envelope while manifesting breast cancer. This input definitely makes your standing in line more unique that others, but on an ongoing basis is not fun and is rather intense. You have to consciously shut out the information you receive, both to honor the soul who is in your sensory path, and to honor your sanity! Controlling your ability and monitoring when you use it, will create less personal burn out.

For Carolyn Myss and others who have paved the way for those of us that follow, our hats are off to each of you. Medical intuition and medical intuitives have come a long way. Whether you are naturally gifted, heavily certified, or somewhere in between, there will still be a time when your client say, "wow, you guessed exactly what the doctor said" OR, "how'd you know this would be on the MRI?"

In our next segment we'll address: "A Day of Consultations". It starts with your client saying, "Let me tell you what is wrong with me!" Hello?????

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Why A medical Intuitive Body Scan?

Why is Brent's Medical Intuitive "Body Scan" helpful?

A "Body Scan" SAVES TIME !!!
Brent has the ability to look inside your body, like a human MRI, PET, or Cat Scan. This saves time in catastrophic care or critical or intensive care situations.
A body Scan
1. Clarifies and identifies critical diseases or other imbalances that can be emotional, mental or spiritual.
2. It locates the disease and disorder areas in your body.
3. It helps determine the "urgency" of your physical situation.

The Body Scan or bioenergy evaluation is a detailed analysis of what is happening within each client's physical system at all levels -cellularly, organically, muscularly, skeletally, etc., This technique is considered a category of "Vibrational Medicine" and Energy Medicine.

The scanning process can also:
1. Confirm medical test results
2. Provide an alternative medicine diagnostic viewpoint
3. Identify areas that have not yet become detectable by traditional medical examinations or testing.
This information can assist you in making decisions about your medical treatment, and health care

Brent Atwater
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